Combining Two Strategies Into One Plan Time Management Skills
Transactional analysis time management is the process of combining two strategies into one plan. Your goal in transactional time management is to reach a specific target. For example, when we are working, playing, or doing anything that connects to a goal, we need social skills and effectual communication to make it work. If we are lacking in social skills and communication our time management scheme will most likely fail.
When I attended college, I had a major problem communicating effectively with people around me. I thought the world was filled with chaos. I lacked confidence in myself to achieve any goal I developed. My life was filled with confusion. I had very few friends since they all talked in a language I could not understand. After attending college and working with my publisher I soon learned the problem was not only my own, but that of others. In fact, they were talking a foreign language.
At college, my speech professor explained dialect. Dialect affects communication and social skills. To become successful we need to understand that each of us is different. Life and time management possess these basic principals that leads to success.
Dialect consists of grammar, pronunciation, vocabulary, and language. Our world focuses on proper English as a rule to follow that leads us to productivity and effective communication. The fact is most American’s do not know proper English. Basically the reason behind not knowing proper reason is they fail to understand dialect.
I visited my old elementary school and apologized one day to my principal. My old elementary school principal said: “you speak fluent English.” I began to think about that statement!
The American English first came into focus in the earlier centuries and came directly from England. The English Language spoken in the United States is mixed up and visibly distinguished from British England, yet not as different as to be a divided language. This means everyone has their own method of communicating; leading us to believe that proper English is a diverse form of communication and it takes an open mind to communicate effectively as well as having social skills that develop good relationships. We are all different in our own ways, and so are our languages. No one really has the correct way of communicating effectively, yet all of us must conform to some rule. This is where we combine elements of one technique with another to make a complicated skill work. Now to combine transactional analysis to get time management in order, we must open our minds and think creatively to reach a goal. The transitional action is the process of communicative (open-mind) action connecting more than one person or things that equally have an effect on our influence of how we connect. Analysis then is the employ of purpose word in its place of inflectional forms as a characteristic method of a verbal communication. Inflectional is changes in your tone or volume in the voice, and the changes of form that words undertake to mark differences that meet gender, race, mood, tension, voice, number of people and so on in the process of communication and socializing.
Breaking it down, when you keep an open mind you are combining transactional analysis, contributing to time management since social skills and communication are CRITICAL to reaching goals and managing time. We can also consider other facets of analysis that can help us produce effectual communication and social skills.
After carefully analyzing words for years, I come to the conclusion that understanding is part of the speaker’s problem. If you do not understand someone, it might not be you with the problem. If the speaker is not using words properly it can impact all communication negatively. You must learn to listen to speakers, read between the lines as you hear what they are saying. We need to work hard toward a well planned time management scheme if we want to make our dreams come true.
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